physical relationship in India
Is it okay for a woman to have a physical relationship before marriage in a conservative country like India?
Yes it is, but at your own risk.
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Your body is your own. You have all the rights to indulge in physical relationship whenever you want, with whomsoever you want. Nowdays its very common and most couples indulge in the same. But having sex before marriage also has its pros and cons.
Pros:
- You get to discover your sexuality.
- You get to make decisions regarding your body.
- Sex is fun. You get to experience it.
Cons:
- You run the risk of pregnancy and STDs.
- As our country is still taboo in matters related to sex before marriage, its difficult to practice sex without taking risks.
- You run the risk of getting caught by your parents which may create a huge ruckus at home and may create trust issues within the family.
- Majority of girls in India have sex under pressure from their current boyfriends. They give in to the constant cajoling and demands of their boyfriends. Trust me. 90% of school/college romance never blossom into marriage. So if your guy is asking for sex stating that he will anyway be marrying you , please do not give in and refrain. If he truly loves you even he can wait. Later on many girls have to lie to their future husbands regarding their past.
- Sometime sex before marriage shifts the entire relationship power balance. You may end up being forced to continue in a toxic relationship because you lost your virginity to them and now feel trapped.
Sex is a very intimate activity which should be done with a partner of your choosing. Do not rush into things just for the sake of it. Practice safe sex only when your body and mind demands it, never to please someone else's demands. You do not need to prove your love to someone by having sex with them. Do it if you are also into the same mindset and do not care about any long term consequences.
You have all the rights to practice safe sex. But my advice would be to just wait till you are independent and have found the perfect caring partner.
The safest thing to wear before having sex: A wedding ring.
Stay happy, stay beautiful!!!
PS: The views submitted above are my own and I do not force anyone to follow the same. I do believe in individual independence regarding matters like this and that there is no right or wrong in such situations. Everyone has their own outlook towards life and their decisions are in their best interest unless it hurts someone else.
It depends upon the family, she is from. Some women are from orthodox and traditional families. Having physical intimacy before marriage is a taboo.
But 2 mutual consenting adults, decide to get physical, they will get physical anyway. In today’s world, there are lot of options. It only takes a spark, to ignite love and passion in someone.
Some modern girls are high in hormones, and they easily get carried away by such infatuations. The decision to have physical relationship, before or after marriage is upto the women. Don’t compell her, if she is not interested into it.
If she herself, has such feelings for you, then you are lucky!! But having physical relationship after marriage is ideal!! Lucky you!!
No woman is gonna have it in open (India).
So the question is what she thinks about it is more important and not the All India Opinion!
If she is Ok with it, let her go for it. If not, don't do it.
Anyway, this one is personal choice, so don't let others know about it except the party involved in it.
India's young generation mindset is changing and having sex pre marriage is a common happening now India. To confirm, it's enough if you see uploaded videos of love?/F**k sessions on various porn websites. Actors, Actress, producer and director all Indianz.! Only.
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